Yes, it can also destroy the natural course of things, for example, I bought a Blackberry phone around 4 months ago, with it I can read my emails, SMS and even have direct connection with other people using Blackberries using the Blackberry messenger. This keeps me all the time checking if I have a new message or important issue to attend. Before the Blackberry I Just had to wait until the next morning to check my messages in the office. There must be a time for work and a time to rest, even if we have a lot of responsibilities, life is too short and we need to enjoy our free time. Share our feelings with our beloved ones and in short be a happier person.

I have also seen how people feel how obligated we are to respond emails and messages immediately, and if we do not reply they feel we are ignoring them and sometimes they even feel offended.

Let’s go towards a healthier way of looking at our life, let’s be more natural, we have forgotten that we work to live not the other way around.

Most of my time I am aware of the greatness all around me, I see my kids, my wife, my family, my neighbourhood, my city and my soul feels so happy and full , there’s God talking to me.

I came to China almost 4 years and I have felt God much more here than back home, I guess it is because here there are no rules, no real religious domain and this freedom helped me realize that God is not a Ruler or a King but our Guide, teacher, Father, Brother, Friend and all the good things we always need.

How do I ask? I just close the door behind me, light a candle and close my eyes then I talked straight form my heart and open up everything that worries me, I show my fear, I ask for guidance, thank for all that I have received and ask for all the people that I know needs help.

I have read here and there about instructions and ways of praying in a more effective way or so, but I do not believe we need rules to talk to God, we just need to open up our true feelings and face ourselves, recognize our mistakes and enjoy our success.

Next time you feel the need to talk to God just do it, do not feel insecure or doubtful, Close your eyes and talk. Ask and you’ll be given, give and it will be received.

I have to make it up to God, I have received so much help that my heart asks me to give help to others, I confess that I do not know how to do it but this is a start.

I will try to be a better person and not to hurt others, everybody deserves to be treated well and we all need to be forgiven for our faults, no matter how big they are, we are all the same, come and go to the same place.

Love for all …