Do you remember this: Don’t touch! , when we get to your aunt’s house behave or you’ll see when we get home! , Don’t eat and talk at the same time! , be good! pick up your toys!, behave!, this is mine! , if you don’t pick it up I’ll throw it away….. and so on and on and on…  is some kind of Psycho programming we are to live since we are born. Even when we play we are being programmed, for war, for rivalry, for hate… You are the good ones, we are the bad ones… let’s play war! tatatatatatatatatatata, you’re dead!! jajajajaja…. seriously, and we still see that’s normal… Last night I went to a 7-eleven to buy something to drink and I saw a kid around 10 years old, assembling a toy machine gun, you had to see with what concentration he was taking care of his toy gun, I guess not even dreaming he’d be so submerged in his fantasy world… Our Operative System comes with this, it’s there, nobody taught us to be like this, we just are like this… See your brain as a supercomputer, it comes with an Operative System in which all programs will run, this OS controls our peripheral devices (sight, hearing, taste, touch, and so on) and then our parents or enviroment introduce all sorts of programs to prepare us for a “good life” , how to eat, how to take care of our body, take care of our “belongings” , become part of society, and all the right “behaviors” we are supposed to have in this world… but , are we actually being “good” , are we “doing the right” ?
We don’t finish a war to jump into other, we spend our lives worrying about money and about a new car, forgetting so many other wonderful things life has for us… We only share with the people we know, remember “Don’t talk to strangers”, And this last phrase is very deep. If you talk to strangers something “bad” can happen! and it’s actually true! We are all strangers. We are all different, so different and so alike!
I was hit by my parents , if you did something “wrong” I was hit by my Dad and my Mom, and unfortunately they programmed me to hit , so now I have three kids, do I have to hit them too! and continue the family tradition of mistreat and violence? Believe me, it’s so deep in our subconscious that I have stopped my hand in the middle of the air and thought , what am I doing? They are just kids, so innocent, so perfect, so us …. when we were kids…. I pray everyday to be a better parent and have my OS changed or upgraded. I would like to go to my brain “control panel” and uninstall lots of unused programs that slow down my system or make it crash down…
 Can we change? Can we make a difference?